I met up with sexy_librarian at Victoria's Midnight Cafe' yesterday evening. It was nice, but we'd both wanted one on one conversation; which there hadn't hardly been any of prior to then. There was a little. Then this guy Derek overheard our conversation and joined in. The thought sort of crossed my mind to tell him to leave us alone. But he did have interesting and relevant things to add. So it would have been missing out on making a potential new friend if one of us had told him to go away. I still felt disappointed. But on her way out I asked if she'd like to go to the art museum sometime soon. She said that'd be fine.